I was thinking a long the lines of what you pointed out, so I am glad you provided your view on the matter, since that just clarified that I am not being unreasonable in thinking the way I do.
My sitch is a bit different I guess, since me and my ex never married. We were together 12 years and had two kids, however I became chronically ill some years back, and marriage was actually set to be in 2019, however, that never happened. She basically told me straight up, that she was happy with OM, because she didn't have to take care of a sick person anymore..
Karma had it then, that my health made an amazing comeback in july, and I have never been more fit both mentally (looking apart from the things regarding my sitch that is), nor physically, im jacked atm, and I am getting the stares from women in the gym, I am just not there, and won't be for quite a while.
I dont fear my future anymore, I absolutely am looking forward to it, setbacks from time to time or not, NGS issues worked on or not, I am slowly getting there.
Ex/ww terminology, to me, she is both .
Last edited by Hurt213; 02/09/1907:54 PM.
BD: Wife says "its over" 11th august 2018. EA: June 2018 PA: August 2018 - ongoing Status: Taking turns 7 days a week to be in the house w. kids WW: no regrets, seems happy with leaving.