This is so hard for us LBS, but when there is young kids involved is so much harder.
And as you said Only with time We all heal.
Your girls are lucky and so are you to have them.
At BD Lesbian marriage Me39,W36 S9,D9,S8 adopted all three Together almost 10yrs Bomb Drop - April 2017 W movedout - May,2017 OW June,2017 Currently 2018 Me40, W38 S10,D10,S9