Into the Fire (LB55 thread 2)

[LB55]

And yea screw putting all this extra effort and money into making her life easy and comfortable right now, she hasn't thought about helping you a single bit. I'm still just completely lost as to how you can be paying her so $7,300 per month support. Honestly, I don't know how you can even be making that much money. Are you an officer?

No I am the highest enlisted pay grade. We have a couple rental homes that bring in about $3300 a month on top of my income.

She wants me to take care of it before the 1st

I don't think it's your job to take care of anything for her anymore. It's hilarious that she says something like that but has you blocked on her phone.

Yes I am studying up on co dependent traits and care taking and / or rescuing relationships. It isn't my job to take care of her, and I am ok with paying off the credit card and closing it, but not so much ok with selling investments to make sure she has more spending money.

She also wants to discuss what we should tell our friends at little league. I vote for the truth. She wants something that isn't awkward.

Right. She made it awkward but she gets to squirm out of everyone realizing how she did it? Don't go out of your way to hurt her or protect her IMO.

Yes she wants to preserve her image as the good mom and wonderful wife that they all think she is. The president and Vice President of the league know the whole story, as I had to talk to them about the accusations she made about me abusing the little league kids when I coachedS11 team last year. Said multiple parents complained and the league did nothing to protect the kids. I want to ensure the league has their bases covered legally, and they wrote a letter to the court stating no complaints were ever stated and that I did a wonderful job for the kids.