She also wants to discuss what we should tell our friends at little league. I vote for the truth. She wants something that isn't awkward. I want to reply with:
"W filed for D 3 days before Christmas while I was in the air coming home to visit, filed a restraining order that prevented me from seeing my family, and had a stranger give it to me in a gas station parking lot at 10pm when I was expecting W to pick me up."
H:"W, I thought about your concerns about telling the LL friends. I am going to say "It ran it's course". If I hear any details from them that are not true, I will clarify the truth. Please be careful with what you tell them."
That's tough for me to say right now, because it hasn't run its course. That's what you say when it's all over. We are barely started in this. I know I am hurt and angry about her actions, and part of me wants revenge and to make her look like a jerk. I know that doesn't solve anything, which is why I posted it here.
I do like the statement about hearing untrue things and clarifying the truth for them.
Me40; W38; S12; D9 BD11/19/2018 D filed 12/20/18 D Final 7/2020 Being the best example I know how for my kids to see.
