Bern, think about what you are going to do. You are emotional and she is being forced to do this, not out of love for you. Don't feel pity for her and put that over what you deserve.
So since you know everything, don't offer that. See if she really comes clean and then if she doesn't? What are you going to do?
If the OM told his W 4 years and you just out of the blue know its 4 and somehow let that slip, they will figure you out. They'll know.
4 years... that [censored] man, so sorry to hear about this.
It hurts you to see her in so much pain about the A , OM and being exposed? Bern, when I first read your thread, I thought you had clear boundaries about this and were about enforcing them. What caused you to change your stance? 4 years Bern, Im angry for you buddy.
Let her hit rock bottom without your help.
Last edited by Adam04; 02/09/1906:53 AM.
H 49 , W 47 T 23, M 17 S11, S5 BD: 7/18 IHS: 7/18 - 3/19 Physically Separated: 3/19-4/19 Piecing: 4/19 - Current
