staying the course

[ovrrnbw]

I think what Sandi is trying to say is that she's playing you. You believe her BS bc you want to. You tell yourself you have to "let it run its course" bc you are scared to take action. It's ok. I was too

And for any and all readers the action is simple: you don't stay with someone who is cheating. You move on. Whether you file or not is your choice but stop being the WS's little buddy.