fear of entrapment vs fear of abandonment

[Adam04]

I'm no Brainiac to know much about the fears from your family of origin but couldn't there be some type of balance between those two and even then, there's got to be a lot of gray areas right? Like the person learns and changes.

I've seen a lot of immature ones with 2x codependent people to 2x domineering people. Seen plenty of bullheaded people arguing back and forth(wouldn't know who to classify as the runner or clingy person in these relationships)

I've seen these relationships below:

alpha/alpha

alpha/beta

beta/beta

codependent/narcissistic

codependent/codependent

whole/whole

broken/broken

whole/broken

Stage 5 clinger or 100 M running champ:

Two key things expressed in DR are communication and conflict resolution. Personality types can play a huge role in how people communicate and resolve issues. Still, whether it comes naturally to some who are in touch or its a struggle day to day, if both parties know the keys to successful marriage lie in these two things, and they work towards that goal, I can't imagine why the labels would matter too much.