So sorry you are going through this, its unfortunate that your H is playing with your emotions. Very important to be strong in these moments. He knows full well that you didnt have an answer for him so why did he ask. Tell him please keep all conversations only about the kids, everything else goes through the L's.
What a great guy he must be!!! SMH....
Deja please stop trying to figure everything out you are driving yourself crazy. Work on yourself. He has the kids, you have the free time to do what you want. Are you following the advice given here? What GAL activities are you doing? Snowing out... well is there skiing in your area then go... movie theater... go... gym.... go.... start moving keep busy. Its the only way out of this. Sitting there thinking about everything you could have done or would have done is not helping.
M:52 W:49 D:26 S:24 S:23 D:20 ILYBNILWY 5/28/17 Still living together W filed 1/5/18 W moved out 8/24/18 D final 9/18/20