New thread- Newcomer pre-bomb drop

[Bern19]

Ok, had a long text convo with OM's wife. Her husband has sold out my WW and the lies they concocted about the events & timeline. Became physical in October/Nov of 2014. Not January of 2017 as the wife claimed. So 4+ years, not 2. Met for sex several times a week (most times in my house) with a short break in March of 2018. I know enough to know the OM isn't the most reliable source for info, but when it comes to general details, it makes no sense for him to change the timeline to well before what he knows she told me.

OM's wife then told me that he quit his job this morning. No notice, just done. Spilled the whole thing to their supervisor and walked out. Super called my wife in after and said that they are required to notify administration. So, wife texted me to tell me about it and how she thinks she should quit because everyone is speculating and she can't take it. I don't know that administration isn't going to make that decision for her, but it does hurt to see her in so much pain. No matter how well I feel that i've detached, I obviously still care for her. Am i crazy? If this was happening to anyone else I'd be like, "Hey you made your bed, now lie in it". I told her that I'm willing to listen to her talk, but that I know everything and I won't listen to her lies any more.