when I was in the thick of my situation, I really didn't want to see my W. She would be with OM at his parent's house but come home every few days for clothes or whatever. She also tried talking to me then. So I completely ignored her calls and texts and also, if she was home, I wouldn't come home. I'd stay with my sister or go out for a bit until she left. Even during the week. I just didn't want to see her or talk to her and it let her come home to an empty house and get the little bit of time with me that she wanted. I wasn't content to just talk to her a couple hours here and there.
It’s tough for sure. I wish I had somewhere else to go but I don’t. Plus I run my business from out of my home office so that requires me to be home a nice portion of the day.
My sitch is tough but it’s what I have until we can wrap things up. My H makes it harder with his pursuit and roller coaster of emotions. However, I’m just going to have to learn how to ignore him.
I’m going to work, and when I get home retreat to my office or bedroom each day. That [censored] but hey it’s what I have. When I can, I’ll be away from home. But again, I’m running a business and raising a son so I can’t be gone everyday all day.
Original BD: 10/26/2017 PA: 10/2017 - 11/2017 Second BD: 09/15/2018 Currently: IHS M: 42 H: 45 S: 22 lives on his own D: 18 away at college S: 15 still lives at home - the only child we share together
