Living,

when I was in the thick of my situation, I really didn't want to see my W. She would be with OM at his parent's house but come home every few days for clothes or whatever. She also tried talking to me then. So I completely ignored her calls and texts and also, if she was home, I wouldn't come home. I'd stay with my sister or go out for a bit until she left. Even during the week. I just didn't want to see her or talk to her and it let her come home to an empty house and get the little bit of time with me that she wanted. I wasn't content to just talk to her a couple hours here and there.


H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.