Exactly, and I think you'd be much happier alone right now. Again I'm not saying give up and quit standing, but you've got to let him hit rock bottom before things might improve. By the way, is he still binge drinking?
He isn't binge drinking and we're also doing more stuff together. In our previous relationship he would binge drink and go MIA. He would not invite me to go do things with him and his friends. So this all has been new.
My IC thinks he is essentially "testing the waters" like a child would do to see how much I will put up with. She thinks once he realizes I'm not going to play his game, it will stop.
