W:"H, something important came up. I will not be home this weekend. Nothing you need to worry about. S15 is planning on bla bla bla. I will let him know to contact you if he needs anything."
If H ask where I am, Only then will I reply with the above. Remember he wants out of this M. When I’m not his wife I won’t be texting him in advance that I won’t be coming home. So he doesn’t want a W anymore, time to give him what he ask for. Again, if he send me a text asking wlll I or S be home for dinner, I will text the above.
I would caution against not notifying him about your S. You do you, but he is still the dad and deserves to know where his kid is going to be. Just my thoughts.
You’re right. I’ll swnd him a text and let him know our S is staying at a friends house. That’s why I’m here, I’m angry and it helps that you all keep me from making a stupid mistake.
Original BD: 10/26/2017 PA: 10/2017 - 11/2017 Second BD: 09/15/2018 Currently: IHS M: 42 H: 45 S: 22 lives on his own D: 18 away at college S: 15 still lives at home - the only child we share together
