Tuesday night the whole tractor secret happened. Wednesday I got the "fell asleep" text that I didn't respond to and nothing else that day. Yesterday he calls me said he thought I was never going to talk to him again since I did not answer his call the day before, and asks if I am still mad. I told him that I am not mad, I wont be in a relationship with secrets. He makes the excuse that he was tired and that's why he acted that way and that some secrets in a relationship are ok.

I did not even acknowledge this as it is all so ridiculous. He next said he is going to order some food. I said I am going to take a bath and ended the call. This morning he calls and makes small talk, he asked what OUR weekend plans are (we have been spending weekends together). Tells me he will call me later, but then adds that I can call him if I get a break from work (I won't call). I am just so flabbergasted by all of this.

Things WERE going good! This is why I don't understand. Maybe his plan was to be a good man for a few months and then start the BS.


Me: 35
XFiance: 40
Kids: 3 (His, Mine, Ours)