Ok. paco I am not suggesting you are doing anything wrong here. sandi's rules strongly suggests avoiding the bar scene because of the pickup/hookup culture. You are up front with these women that is great. You should never start something with someone until you've completely moved on from your W.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018