Originally Posted by Ready2Change
Is this still your plan for today:
Originally Posted by Ready2Change
Wait until Friday afternoon, then text this:

W:"H, something important came up. I will not be home this weekend. Nothing you need to worry about. S15 is planning on bla bla bla. I will let him know to contact you if he needs anything."



Yes it is. I packed a small bag and left all my toiletries at home. I went to the store and bought travel size toiletries. I left no evidence that I won’t be coming home. My S is staying at a friends to help him celebrate his friends birthday. As soon as I’m done working today, I’ll be checking into my hotel room.

If H ask where I am, Only then will I reply with the above. Remember he wants out of this M. When I’m not his wife I won’t be texting him in advance that I won’t be coming home. So he doesn’t want a W anymore, time to give him what he ask for. Again, if he send me a text asking wlll I or S be home for dinner, I will text the above.

I should add that I booked the room with a visa gift card. Don’t want him knowing where I’m staying and showing up.

Last edited by Living; 02/08/19 06:32 PM.

Original BD: 10/26/2017
PA: 10/2017 - 11/2017
Second BD: 09/15/2018
Currently: IHS
M: 42 H: 45
S: 22 lives on his own D: 18 away at college S: 15 still lives at home - the only child we share together