I would really think about if it is smart for you to make as much money as you can right now. The less you make the more he will have to give you in child support and alimony.
Nothing says detachment and moral superiority like manipulating the system to make your spouse pay you more money.
Lol! I can see that.
However, in all honest, I’m just trying to get what is fair. I’m not trying to take him to the cleaners. Even though I’m hurt and mad as he11 at him, I’m not trying to make him suffer extra. I’m not trying to be petty or manipulative. I don’t want that karma. Just saying I’m not walking away with “nothing”. And I’m not saying that is what you are insinuating. I just want to make sure I don’t give off the wrong impression.
As much as I don’t want a D and still love my H with every fiber of my being. I do hope he finds inner peace and the happiness he’s so desperately in search of.
I’m praying that God wlll grant me the serenity to accept the things that I can’t change. I’m praying for peace. Right now I’m still in pain but I don’t want to do something that will create some bad karma for me.
That’s why until I sign on the dotted line, I won’t disrespect him or cheat. Honoring my vows is something I have control over. Can’t control him but I can control me.
Original BD: 10/26/2017 PA: 10/2017 - 11/2017 Second BD: 09/15/2018 Currently: IHS M: 42 H: 45 S: 22 lives on his own D: 18 away at college S: 15 still lives at home - the only child we share together
