So going forward I’m taking lots of the advice here. I’m going to focus on myself and my S. I’m going to hustle hard and make as much money as I can. That way when we are on our own, we will be able to survive. It’s not going to be easy but I’ve been a single parent before. Of course I will get some child support and most likely alimony but I won’t be relying on that money. I need to be able to financially provide for myself.
I would really think about if it is smart for you to make as much money as you can right now. The less you make the more he will have to give you in child support and alimony.
I can tell your a proud person but you did not ask or deserve to have this happen to you. It my sitch my ex felt guilty and gave me a lot of concessions so I took advantage of it. I have not felt guilty one day about it.
Starting now it is what is best for you and your sons.
