I recently found out that W is contacting one of my friends to ask a out me, tvis made me unhappy since my friend is civing her information.
Yeah this is why we say not to share anything with mutual friends, because people love to gossip about relationship stuff and anything you say will quickly get telegraphed to your W. So if anyone asks about your sitch just tell them "yes we're having problems but we're working on it" and SAY NO MORE. If you need to vent or talk about it then do it here and/ or with friends that have no attachment to your W at all.
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Today out of the blue she texted me to ask about my tax return, she wants me to use my money to pay for the money she spent on my credit card.
What was your reply? I wouldn't have replied at all, but I would have quietly canceled the card as Joe said. If it's your CC then you're going to be responsible for at least half the debt she puts on it if not all of it. As Adam said you need to protect yourself financially.
