Just empty threats Bo. Stay strong. Like Twofeet says, if she takes the kids, get to your lawyer ASAP and file. It would be nice if you could agree on a parenting plan but that usually requires both parties to be willing to negotiate and make some compromises. Your W is basically having a temper tantrum and her claim that your are hurting the kids is just her trying to guilt you into agreeing. Don’t buy into it. If anyone is hurting the kids, it is her. (((HUGS)))