Reading all these sitches, wow, this is really a crazy world. Dicarding people at the drop of a dime seems to be the norm. If you are newly BD'ed have no fear there is peace coming your way. How do I know bc I was you, couldnt believe what W had done, 3 months, 6 months, 12 months... freedom at last ... you will break free. I now have to take her to court to get D'ed and its a D that I want... I also will fight for everything I am entitled to. I will not be vindictive but I will not cave in and think that if i do she will see how nice I am and want to R. NO WAY, at this point she did me a favor.
Since BD I have made over 100 new friends... thats right 100... dont believe me, well then go join a social club and watch what happens. Activities, friendship, and no judgements!
Got a text about a week ago that the club needed a few more pints of blood to reach their goal. I went down and donated. It felt great helping someone who may need it. While I was sitting there I thought about if it was a child that was fighting cancer or maybe someone who needed a organ transplant. Either way it made me feel good that I could help.
Its Friday here and tonight is a big party celebrating Valentines Day. Really looking forward to this, prizes, drinks, and food. Good times.
I just cleaned two bathrooms and the kitchen and the house smells great. Once a gain getting things done is 180 for me and now is the norm. If I need to do something I do it no waiting.
Running is going great and I am once again dropping weight. The sauna after my runs is really cool.
Great site, Great advice, wish I followed it sooner.
M:52 W:49 D:26 S:24 S:23 D:20 ILYBNILWY 5/28/17 Still living together W filed 1/5/18 W moved out 8/24/18 D final 9/18/20
