Quote: Hip-Hip-Hooray Mega-Mojo got f**ked Two times in one day
Wow, mojo.. twice in one day!! Fantastic! My "dirty little secret" is that this is the kind of thing I have in mind for my Anniversary, but I sincerely doubt it'll happen. I'll post more about this plan in my own thread... just wanted to say how happy I am for you!!
I'm so happy. I really feel like things are going to be better from now on. My H was packing to leave for 5 days again this morning and I could tell he was kind of stressed anticipating the upcoming work week. Being my HD self, I of course was feeling horny anticipating the 5 day absence even though I got some twice on Saturday (greedy, greedy).
Pre SSM and PM, I would have done one of the following:
1) Decided not to initiate because I sensed my H's level of stress and knew I would likely be unsuccessful. Then I would have been frustrated and kind of angry for a while.
2) Approached him anyways, but in a timid way because I was afraid of rejection. Then if I was rejected,which would have been likely because of my timid approach, I would have been hurt and upset.
But Post-SSM and PM Mojo did the following:
I told my husband that I knew that he was stressed out but I just wanted him to know I was going to miss him and I was feeling very horny, in fact my breasts had been tingling all morning in anticipation of some possible action. This got his attention for a minute. He looked at my breasts. Then he kicked back into stress mode saying 'I've got to finish packing". I offered to help him and then lay down on the bed and chatted with him as he packed some more. I said "It's too bad you have to go so soon, because those new sideburns you are growing are pretty hot in an "Easy Rider" sort of way" and "I'm cool with you turning me down for sex because I know I look sexy right now in my new pink push- up bra and I'm not feeling needy for your approval"
Guess who got done a minute later?!
Maintaining my general sense of newly gained good humor, after he did me, at the interval when I would have usually started doing him, I pretended to start getting dressed and said "O.K., you can go now." LOLOLOL
Anybody reading this post who is feeling desperate, go back and read some of my earlier posts. I was as desperate as anyone on this board and now I'm doing great.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
I think I've come up with a way to tell if someone you're dating is HD or LD. When you are out having dinner with a new guy and generally things seem to be going well, with slow intent reach over and take an item of food from his plate and eat it. I think his reaction to this behavior would be pretty indicative of his drive. If he objects in any way probably LD or ND and selfish. If he does a double-take but then seems ok with it he would probably be ND or LD feeling HD for you. If he reaches right over and takes something from your plate too, you know you've got a keeper.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
