I think you are reading me wrong. I am doing my best me and moving on. It has only been at that point where I stopped worrying what she decides to do.
My mistake was thinking she was on the brink of R and leaning back in too quickly. I think I am over anxious to get to R to really evaluate if this is the person I want to spend more of my life with. I am not begging, I am not desperate, but closure is something I think LBSs are looking for before they can make this decision.
AS gave me the advice to reaffirm my boundary of NC before WW claims to be making an effort. I have been through the cake eating stage and will not tolerate it any further. Move back in or move on.
Last edited by lost8; 02/07/1909:11 PM.
H-50 W-48 T-19 M -18 S23, S14 BD - 5/9/2018 OM discovered 5/10/2018
In house sep - 8/18/2018 Rope drop 2/15/2019 R'ing since 3/15/2019