Agree agree agree.....listen to what is being said here!!!!! I went along with the reconnecting 5 months ago while she was still a WW. Nothing but cake eating and more pain and anxiety for me.
It wasn't until I figured myself out and dropped that rope. That has been the only thing that was effective on kicking that biotch out of the fog.
H-50 W-48 T-19 M -18 S23, S14 BD - 5/9/2018 OM discovered 5/10/2018
In house sep - 8/18/2018 Rope drop 2/15/2019 R'ing since 3/15/2019