Hi Adam, interesting read out from a millennial. That doesn't sound tempting to me either! But that's great it worked for your sister-in-law. I guess there are so many variables but it seems the main point is not to get caught up in time-wasting games. In your case it does sound hard to think about someone new after 25 years of being with someone else. You never know what will happen in the future but there's no rush. You have your kids and they'll keep you busy!


AnotherStander, if something seems too good to be true it usually is! I can imagine with online dating you have to navigate through so many unknowns and endless choices, not to mention rejection and rejecting, to find something real. That's great you have a girlfriend yourself! It's encouraging to hear how many of you already-divorced members here were able to find love again. That makes an unwanted divorce feel just a little less depressing.