Is there a thread on typical timelines/stages of the WW or WAS?
What Cadet said. The only thing we can tell you for sure is the timeline is much, much longer than you expect it to be. It is highly unusual for a WAS to turn around in less than a year. Sometimes in 1-2 years, but even that is not the norm. The norm is for the LBS to wait and wait and wait and then a year later give up, drop the rope and move on, then 6 months to a year after that the WAS has a change of heart. So like Cadet said you've just got to move forward like she isn't coming back.
THIS.
And the sooner you move forward like she isn't coming back, drop the rope and truly move on, the sooner she will have her change of heart. Funny how that works, eh?
Thank you all...I do understand. Easier said than done but I will continue to do my best to move forward with my life with my son.
I hope she doesn't keep avoiding her father. She'll regret that forever if he passes and she doesn't spend this time with him.
H 37 W 31 S 2
T: 7 M: 4
BD 12/18 Separated 2/19 Living back together 04/06/2019 W Moved out again 07/15/2019
