My W has been gone for a week now, seems like she is enjoying her new condo so far and things have been pleasant during our interactions...at what point might reality kick in that she's potentially losing her H and son?
Jac what would make her think that is happening? First off she is not going to lose her son. At the most she will lose 50% of her time with him. You would be shocked on how many WW are ok with it.
I want to brace you for the fact that this is most likely going to take years before it plays out. Most likely it is going to get a lot worse before it gets better. You are going to have to learn to have infinite patience. There are no shortcuts. The quicker you learn that the better chance you will have of a recon.
Early on you can't make things better but you can and most newbies do make things worse due to impatience.
