New thread- Newcomer pre-bomb drop

[Bern19]

OM's wife texted me a bunch of new info late last night and this morning. Looks like the affair was going on closer to 4 years than the 2 years she owned up to. I had a feeling she was trickle truthing me about that and many other things. She texted me about how she loves me and made a big mistake contacting him, but she was only contacting him because she felt bad for him. Said he came to her and told her he was thinking about drinking again. Yes, he's a recovering addict. She knows it was wrong and is very sorry. Then the kicker.... she goes on to say she's willing to do the work and that things have been getting better. BUT.... she "can't live her life with me bringing it up or thinking it's going on, over and over again. It's over and I need you to believe me." So, in one paragraph she goes from being ready to do the work to just let it go and I need to believe her... Right!??!