Im moving on with my life. W dropped Go F yourself, Eat Sht to me on the phone yesterday. I refuse to have unhealthy relationships in my life. I never would allow anyone to speak like that in my life. Im done. She plays the victim and manipulates me. She is relying on her stepdad for work, relying on me for money. Constant victim. Acts like a spoiled teenager. Oh by the way I went on a date with a doctor who was voted top 100 in the country and we hit it off. I deserve better. F this BS. During convo when W cursed at me she presented Kindergarten prices for D4 ranging from $8k - $17k. I live in a great school district. I do not appreciate being treated like a bank. W Mentioned her mom offered to pay (she has an awful relationship with her mom and I can not allow this). Guilt trip. Im torn on private vs public. Going to tour the 8k school. Also need to look into the public schools more thoroughly.
Thoughts on this agreement below? I have not paid support for February. And plan on having W sign this and giving her a check tomorrow. Accepting divorce as the best outcome for my future.
H and W financial agreement.
H will pay W $2325 per month as spousal support and child support. This support started in July 2018. This support will last for 12 monthly payments. At that point child support will be determined. There will be no more spousal support or alimony paid after 12 months. There will be no payment or splits from any other accounts, properties or other shared finances.
W left the marital home in June 2017 and used shared credit cards until finances were split in July 2017.
H currently pays the following monthly payments: YMCA: $114 & $106 Health Insurance: $491.25 Life insurance: $28.91 (W) H to continue to pay for life insurance for W and H. Life insurance policies to remain in each other’s names as claimants. Custody to remain 50/50. H has offered to get childcare as needed to help with work schedules.
On the kindergarten. $8k - $17k is insane and she is insane for suggesting it. Kindergarten is not even state mandated in many states! That's right, you do not have to even send your child to kindergarten, so spending that kind of money for is crazy and she is OUT OF HER MIND for even suggesting it.
Did, the agreement needs to be vetted by a good divorce attorney.
So when are you filing for D?
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
