Groceries is a good idea-

It is a tough situation because she has the kids, so you may need to step in when needed

Also may be a better idea to get full custody (if possible) or at least more custody- and let her go do her thing with no responsibility- especially if she cant handle the day to day things like having enough food for the kids, finances and taking care of her kids


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