This is a heartbreaking update. I'm so sorry. I can easily see myself in your shoes in a few years and I can't even fathom having to say goodbye a second time when you love someone so much, gave them so many chances, and tried so hard. You really tried hard. It was evident in your updates here. I admire you. You made the right decision but it's a hard lesson for your ex-wife to learn and an excruciating discovery for you to find out what she's been hiding. There aren't really any winners in this situation. It's sad for everyone but I completely agree with what you did. I think we can both still agree that Iraq was nothing compared to this.
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