Everything was 50/50, but there are different routes to get there. For example I got to keep our house and I never thought that was possible.
Yes at the end she thought she got a raw deal even though she got everything she wanted. A part of this was her WW mentality and a part of this was her glass is half empty mentality. She has bad GiGS.
I haven't read up on your sitch but word of advice, go to an IC, learn to meditate, go back to church, hit the gym, do yoga. Mind, body, spirit. It's not about her anymore, it's about taking care of yourself and your kids.
H(37) W(35) D8, D5, S3 T20, M13 BD 8/31/18 EA Discovered 9/13/18 Mediation 10/3/18 W files for D 10/12/18 W moves out 11/10/18 EA confirmed 12/25/18 D Final 1/10/19