Are the Spanish islands the canary islands? If so be sure to check out the Lanzarote wine region. It is very unique and the wines are good.
H(37) W(35) D8, D5, S3 T20, M13 BD 8/31/18 EA Discovered 9/13/18 Mediation 10/3/18 W files for D 10/12/18 W moves out 11/10/18 EA confirmed 12/25/18 D Final 1/10/19
That's exactly where I'm going Can't wait to relax. Staying in a beautiful hotel for a week.
BH: 36 WW:33 M: 2 Relationship: 6 years. Dday: Aug 2018 0 1st mention of D: 30/09, 2nd Mention 17/02/2019 LRT: Oct 2018 WW & AP: EA & PA since June 2018 (Moved country and in with AP Feb 2019)
It's great to read your update. I really think travel is the key to clearing your mind. I've been feeling better since planning a trip myself. It'll give you a chance to absorb this nightmare from a peaceful setting and hopefully it'll help you to prepare for whatever's next. It's great that you're open to new places and changes in your life. I hope you'll let us know how your trip goes!
It's great to read your update. I really think travel is the key to clearing your mind. I've been feeling better since planning a trip myself. It'll give you a chance to absorb this nightmare from a peaceful setting and hopefully it'll help you to prepare for whatever's next. It's great that you're open to new places and changes in your life. I hope you'll let us know how your trip goes!
Thanks Nicole, will do. I'll post a few updates in the meantime. Hope you're doing well.
BH: 36 WW:33 M: 2 Relationship: 6 years. Dday: Aug 2018 0 1st mention of D: 30/09, 2nd Mention 17/02/2019 LRT: Oct 2018 WW & AP: EA & PA since June 2018 (Moved country and in with AP Feb 2019)
She tried calling and messaged me now. She's not in my country.
"Hi, I tried calling but couldn't get through. I hope you are well. I can imagine that you don't want to talk to me, but I would really appreciate it if we could have at least a quick chat. It would make things a lot easier for both of us if we could communicate like adults. Please. WW "
Havent replied yet..... NC since last October, what should i say?
BH: 36 WW:33 M: 2 Relationship: 6 years. Dday: Aug 2018 0 1st mention of D: 30/09, 2nd Mention 17/02/2019 LRT: Oct 2018 WW & AP: EA & PA since June 2018 (Moved country and in with AP Feb 2019)
That's shocking news! I don't really know what you should do. I guess if it were me I'd ask her to send a text or an e-mail with what she has to say. Talking sounds difficult, but if you want to return her call I don't see any harm in it. People in this situation with kids have to talk routinely and it works out somehow. Please let us know what happens. I'll check back later!
We don't have kids Nicole. Thing is, it's Valentines weekend. She's calling me from her home country, on a number I haven't seen before. More than likely shes spending time with AP this weekend and he's probably asking her what's the story in regards the Divorce.
It's a mobile number. It could be her AP's, or else shes got a new #. From reading the message, it sounds like she wants to talk about the Divorce/Separation. "Communicate like Adults" is bs in my mind and she wants to take the high ground here. I spoke with my family and they said to ignore, as she's incredibly selfish and it's her way of controlling the situation.
I'm not comfortable talking with her at the moment, especially knowing she's in her country, with him. From my experience, usually, she will try again if it's urgent. She hasn't shown any interest in reconciling or fixing anything since Dday.
BH: 36 WW:33 M: 2 Relationship: 6 years. Dday: Aug 2018 0 1st mention of D: 30/09, 2nd Mention 17/02/2019 LRT: Oct 2018 WW & AP: EA & PA since June 2018 (Moved country and in with AP Feb 2019)
Sandi/Neffer/Steve/ovr any advice on this? I haven't replied
BH: 36 WW:33 M: 2 Relationship: 6 years. Dday: Aug 2018 0 1st mention of D: 30/09, 2nd Mention 17/02/2019 LRT: Oct 2018 WW & AP: EA & PA since June 2018 (Moved country and in with AP Feb 2019)
If you are not comfortable talking about it then it probably wouldnt go very well in the first place. I wouldnt talk about it if i werent comfortable.
M:16 T:21 H(me) 38 WW: 38 S11 D16 D19 Red Flags of A: March 2018 ILYBNILWY: August 4, 2018 Moved out of MBR: September 24, 2018 BD/Confirmation of A: October 31, 2018 D Filed: March 27, 2019
If you are not comfortable talking about it then it probably wouldnt go very well in the first place. I wouldnt talk about it if i werent comfortable.
Thank you SoTorn, the way it was phrased, sounded it was for her benefit only.
BH: 36 WW:33 M: 2 Relationship: 6 years. Dday: Aug 2018 0 1st mention of D: 30/09, 2nd Mention 17/02/2019 LRT: Oct 2018 WW & AP: EA & PA since June 2018 (Moved country and in with AP Feb 2019)
