New thread- Newcomer pre-bomb drop

[ovrrnbw]

You "have to confront"..,. What are you going to do if she refuses to end it yet again? B/c if your W says she's not going to cut off the OM and you stick around, what does that say?

Then again later saying the reason she can't tell me big things is I refuse to believe her on the little things.

Lol as if she has any credibility. Sometimes you just have to laugh in someone's face when they are this outrageous.

Here's the thing, your W knows your still on the hook. If you let go of her and moved on with your life, there's no telling whether or not your W will really want back in, and your W will never really know if she really wants back in until she is put in that situation. Your W is not ready to let go of you yet, whether that's b/c of you or something else is to be seen. I had to have a similar convo last weekend, and I was scared. But if you let your fear control then you aren't really breaking this negative cycle you are in with your W. Your W knows this is wrong, you don't need to spend time convincing her. You just need to decide if you're going to keep living like this.