He sed he looked online but “couldn’t find one that worked”. I’m very confused as his lawyer has been a divorce lawyer for 30 years wouldn’t he tell him this is a requirement to be granted divorce??
Apparently his L did tell him, why else would he have looked for it online.
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A small part of me is wondering if this was on purpose and he knew we couldn’t go through with it Monday??
I would imagine he's just being lazy. Doing the class will take some time and effort so he was hoping he could just show up, act stupid and get a free pass. He learned that rarely works in a court of law though.
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I spoke to a mutual friend of ours and she said “I have a feeling this isn’t the end for you guys”.
I had several friends tell me the same thing. I think it's just one of those things people tell you hoping to cheer you up.
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We go back to court in April. Hope he will wake up before then and get the help he / we need!!!
Realistically he's not going to change his mind in 2 months. A year or two from now, yes could very well be.
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The mutual friend suggested starting off as friends w him and going out without the kids
Absolutely not! Give him time and space. Remove all pressure.
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Would it be stupid for me to suggest lunch after ?
Not stupid, but to him it will look desperate so don't do it. No one is attracted to desperate, needy people. You've got to get your independence back before he'll start noticing you again.
