typical WW on my hands

[Ready2Change]

First, Get legal advise to know what your rights are.

Second, get financial advise. Understand the tax implications of splitting assets. Understand the "real value" of different assets.

Third always have "time to think" before agreeing to things.



I was involved in a highly contested custody battle with two divorce attorneys. Financially and emotionally devastating for the family.

H atterny $400/hr
W atterny $300/hr (Guessing)

Paying $700/hour to argue is crazy. But I had to lawyer up to play the game.


After D, we had a mediation session WITH THE LAWYERS. This was also crazy. Only reason I settled during this was "Pro se" was written into the agreement. IE No more lawyers. I pay a bit more in child support.


Going into mediation prepared is good. What are you disagreeing about?