You all are correct. He never once said he wanted the M. Just that he loves me, is going through something, is confused, misses me, can't understand how I can just cut him off, blah blah blah. He has said all kind of crap...he wants out of the M but isn't sure if he wants a D.
It's me again:)
I'm going to suggest you read some old MLCer threads. If it helps you see things "through" your H's eyes it may help you to detach and let him go. People who say the things he said are not coming from a healthy place. They're in pain too. I'm not trying to give him excuses, I'm only trying to show where he is coming from. For me I have found it helpful and calming to know that W is going through her own stuff, not tearing up our life just for fun. They're not doing this for fun - and for me that helps with my own pain.
Wonka is a woman who went through a MLC and recounted her mentality. Also AmyC. And there were some men but I just can't recall the screen names now.
