I like this, day dreaming about what "ideal" would be. I've been thinking about it anyway as part of my assignment from divorce recovery class to make a list of the things I can't stand, and the things I want (so I can compare new candidates to workable standards).

I am not sure I need to have sex every single day. I do know that sex 2-3 times a day improves my disposition-- but I don't need that every day. There's some lingering effect, like with drugs. I think I just want sex about 25-40 times a month, depending on what's going on.

But if some days were really hot, they'd get me through the days with nothing. And I want an equal say in what I want, when I want it (ie not getting rejected, judged, turned down) rather than sitting and being available. Why do so many men struggle with that???

Now, do I tell guys this on the first date? ROTFLMAO!

Never try to teach a pig to sing. It wastes your time, and annoys the pig.