Jac, yes exactly, my W was partying at HH everyday with 20-30 somethings. I did not recognize her nor did her friends or kids.
I'm not sure if she is a WW at this point but like Steve said she is showing the signs of not really caring if she currently is or is looking to be. [censored] either way because you are no longer on her radar....albeit hopefully just a fog that will lift but you can't force it to.
H-50 W-48 T-19 M -18 S23, S14 BD - 5/9/2018 OM discovered 5/10/2018
In house sep - 8/18/2018 Rope drop 2/15/2019 R'ing since 3/15/2019