I know I can't be that naive to think it's not happening so I am mentally preparing myself for that and trying my best to detach.
Great. I know in my case, even though I had evidence she still maintained that that her EAP was "just a friend". Of course, later I found nudes that had been sent to him. They will deny especially if they know the people around them will condemn their activities. My W had no enablers. ZERO. Other than OM. He was a unemployed, excon, living with his elderly father several states away, 12 years her junior that had no way to support himself, let alone her.
Enablers in these sitches complicate them. In mine there were none.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
