Husband left for the second time - 8

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Nicole,

how "in love" can someone be while they're married to someone else? You think the wife of the WH is far from the OW's mind? I doubt it. Even a fool would be worried.

As far as what you can do, there's plenty. I'd read some of the old threads R2C has linked, I find some of the "old techniques" here quite interesting, though many of the posters are long gone. And sometimes I wonder, what do you/I/we really have to lose? Isn't subtracting a negative a positive?

I think you missed the line where I said I have more in common with the type of guys that come to this forum!

I'm just a typical American, what can I say?

And yes, you never know what someone may think about going back overseas with you! You know what they say about assumptions, right? I've found that girls that "aren't good" at romance/dating are better partners b/c they don't know or need to play all the games. That is a huge positive for you. If I get divorced, I would refuse to do online dating, b/c I too would be horrible at the games and lingo and texting and ghosting. I don't know the games and I don't want to know them. I'll say hello to the girls at the store or at a bar. Good girls go out to bars too. If you do get involved with someone from a dating site, I'd not talk so much about your WH. I can totally commiserate with you on the "good ole days" of a happy life and marriage, but as we see now, those days were just an illusion.

Nicole, be strong. You have a lot to offer the world.