probably the note was sent to avoid confrontation They want their actions to be approved of and want validation
I would say nothing and also agree with the others When you see him, be kind cheerful and start creating a life
take dance lessons or do something different for fun Let him see you creating a new life
He may or may not follow through many Mlcers will eventually leave My xh threatened moving out for months-then he did There is not much we as LBS can do except embrace the new reality
Watch the finances though they will drain accounts to create their fantasy world- they will put things on credit and overspend beyond their means If you have not consulted a L I would consider a free consult just to see your rights and gets financial advice
Trust that as much as it hurts now- YOU will be ok and many LBS do move on to create better lives for themselves and the kids-
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
