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Hey Jac! I hope that came through in an Uncle Si voice.

I'm not sure if you've read any other threads here before posting. If so, you'd start to see that most the situations here have a wayward spouse. Usually moving out is to facilitate that waywardness.

Doesn't check in daily with her mom to see how she can help or even to talk to her dad.

Don't worry about this for now, she doesn't want or need your advice at the moment and there's nothing you can do about it.

Also had been distancing herself over the past couple months from our son - just not a lot of quality time together and she doesn't facetime him at morning or night when she's not with him.

Same advice as above, let it go. Not sure why facetime matters, and part of me wonders if the facetime is something you want.

I wasn't doing things right or playing safe enough with him

What's this all about?

The rest of the stuff about her is just WW (wayward wife) garbage. "I need to be free" "I need to see what I may be missing" "I need to find myself". And the fact she's never really been single makes me wonder who she's with now.

You're going to want to read the links Cadet posted. Lots of good info there. Not everything is going to make sense, so keep posting and ask questions.