Determined now as I move forward..

[Dtrmned]

I am curious what you would call where I am right now in terms of my MR.
W moved out in November. We have had a couple of blow ups that first month, but we are now settled into a routine of kids on/off, etc. I am moving things out of "our" name into individual names as things come due. Auto insurance, health insurance, cell phone bills, etc. We communicate well even though it is only about kids and finances. Kids is generally about school, issues, etc. So nothing is ever good. When we text, I only respond with the shortest answer needed. Brief and to the point. When we are speaking (our D still has some major issues she is dealing with) it does sometimes still get heated, but we have discovered how to handle that better on both sides. I am GAL, concentrating on work and the kids more and more all the time. I can now see a life without my W. I do still desire and wish for a reconciliation but am resigned that at present I need to focus on my future and how to create a good life and home for my kids. She has not made one inch of effort into filing. I am hesitant until I get everything transferred out of our joint names. In our state, if you file, everything remains "status quo" until it is done so if it was joint at filing, it remains that way until it is done.

So am I still in limbo?