Moving forward

[peacetoday]

I experienced the same

MY XH left his home, business kids and family of origin
His mother passed many years back..

As far as I know, His sisters said he never acknowledged his moms death
And still 10 years later- he has not reconnected with his sisters or his kids

I think he is a rare bird b/c he is also an alcoholic-sober a long time until MLC

I would do as you are
Be the best father you can for your kids
make sure they are safe-
let her go--she will continue to do bizarre things and possibly get sicker in the next few months/years

Im sorry but the outcome here is usually not great-at least for a chunk of time-