Just read LH's response, he does have some good points. It's OK and normal to miss intimacy, but at the same time you've got to try to quit missing your old W, because as we've already discussed that person is gone. It's confusing because you look at this "new" version of her and she looks the same. But it's not her anymore. And I think you're holding out hope that the old person will come back. It happens, but more often than not whatever a WAW changes into she just mostly stays that way. So detach, GAL, let her go on her journey and somewhere down the road you might be working on a new R with this new version of her. But until then work on you.
