I said that I allow wiggle room, meaning a few extra pounds and more wrinkles. I am not unrealistic. But being 50 lbs overweight is a SIGNIFICANT CHANGE, and one that does not have to happen. My wife also expects that same of me, she has told me what she wants me to fix, and I am doing so. We all age, gain some weight, etc. But we also have the obligation to be in the best physical shape we can be for our spouses. My wife has some major body issues, AND IT DOES NOT COME FROM ME. She puts pressure on herself, I actually try to COMPLIMENT her, but what I think does not really matter, she is very unhappy about her own physical problems.
