Job says it better

They become the opposite of who they were

She was close to family

Now she alienates them

The part with the kids was the hardest

My w was so close to the kids

And then she distanced herself from them too

You are dealing with a person in crisis

Their empathy chip is broken

They are focused on whatever they are feeling

My w said she needed to follow her heart

Trust her feelings

No matter the cost

This of course makes no sense to you

And your head spins

And your heart hurts

So that is why we say focus on healing yourself

And taking care of the kids

You did not break her

You cannot fix her

Praying for you in this dark moment

But it too will pass

One way or another

It is what it is

Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving