Wow...your D12 sure doesn’t want you to look at her apps. I wonder if there is something really bad on there or if she is worried about something her friends said or did and she is protecting them. Are there any adults that she trusts that she might be willing to show them to? Her counsellor? She obviously thinks she is going to get into trouble for something. Deleting the apps addresses the issue in the short term but not the long term. It is a bit of a pickle you are in. Would she let you see look at it if you promised her she won’t get into trouble and that you just need to make sure she is being safe and responsible in her technology use. The things we have to worry about in this day and age. Scary world.
That is strange your H would spend five hours in your home without you or the kids there. My H would never do that. He can barely be in my house for five minutes let alone five hours.
Don’t talk to your H until you feel like you can. You can always just say that you are havivng a difficult day and don’t feel like you are in the frame of mind to have a productive discussion and that you will call him back when you are feeling up to it. You don’t really owe him any more of an explanation than that. It’s either that or don’t answer.
