Yes I am hopeful that they are temporary too. Waiting for the actual paperwork to review and make sure that’s what it says. That’s what I remember him saying, but my L says it’s different in her mind. We might be able to negotiate it a bit. But these are the temp orders, not the permanaent ones. That’s a ways off still. Changes my tactics a bit which was going to be to hold out for a while I review a page a day or per week as I see fit and make her start seeing the financial reality of her decision. Instead she gets $4000 a month to go on vacations with. Have to make sure the numbers are right and then figure out the next steps beyond my housing.


Me40; W38; S12; D9
BD11/19/2018 D filed 12/20/18
D Final 7/2020
Being the best example I know how for my kids to see.